Do divorcees like threesome





I just feel alone and even though I know what I'm doing is right, there's still moments when I find myself questioning if it wouldn't be easier to just reconcile, even though I know it's the worst possible thing I could do. Obviously her attempts at reconciliation is showing you that this threesome thing was simply a way to spice up your love life and that when it comes down to you or her fantasy, she would chose you every time. From your description, it doesn't seem like she was being incredibly pushy, more floating an idea that went down badly. After several events between the three of us, they decided to open their relationship up more and date around. Therefore- it is her who is staying faithful to your marriage vows and you are not. Maybe it would bug them a bit, but they would talk it through like adults and move on. The desire for it would never go away but she would no longer let him know about the details.

He says they had several talks, each escalating in intensity, and that at one point she made him feel unreasonable for being not ok with this.

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She shouldn't have pressured him. To me, that says that the marriage is more important to her than this. If it's the first one, then they're not really being friends at all. Marriages aren't prone to breaking up because the wife refuses to do anal, and when that does happen, people find it odd because marriages are usually built on more than that. Have you ever asked her if she had done it before? Marriages are about working through differences, and ending it because the other member likes something that you don't enjoy is probably not the best reason. So, this was a dealbreaker for you, but it's unclear whether or not she was similarly prepared to file if you decided not to comply, but stick around.








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